Twin flame mirroring is the concept that your twin flame reflects back to you all of your deepest fears, insecurities, and emotional wounds. This mirroring effect can be difficult to handle, as it forces you to confront aspects of yourself that you may have been avoiding or denying. However, it is also an essential part of the twin flame journey, as it helps you to grow and evolve on a spiritual level.
When you encounter your twin flame, you may experience a range of intense emotions, both positive and negative. These emotions can be triggered by your twin flame’s behaviour, but they ultimately stem from your own internal struggles. For example, if you have a fear of abandonment, your twin flame may trigger this fear by exhibiting behaviour that makes you feel like they are pulling away. By confronting this fear head-on and working through it, you can heal and grow as a person.
Twin flame mirroring can also manifest in more subtle ways, such as your twin flame reflecting back to you your own strengths and positive qualities. By seeing these qualities mirrored in your twin flame, you can gain a greater sense of self-awareness and confidence in yourself.
In summary, twin flame mirroring is a challenging but essential part of the twin flame journey. By facing your fears and insecurities head-on, you can grow and evolve on a spiritual level, ultimately leading to a deeper connection with your twin flame.
Sure, here are some examples of twin flame mirroring:
- Your twin flame triggers your deepest fears and insecurities, forcing you to confront and heal them.
- You notice that your twin flame has the same negative patterns or behaviors that you struggle with, such as a fear of commitment or a tendency to self-sabotage.
- Your twin flame reflects back to you your own strengths and positive qualities, such as your creativity or compassion.
- You and your twin flame share similar life experiences or traumas, which can help you to understand and empathize with each other on a deeper level.
- Your twin flame’s behavior or emotions can mirror your own, such as feeling anxious or overwhelmed in certain situations.
- Your twin flame may push your buttons or challenge you in ways that no one else can, which can be frustrating but ultimately helps you to grow and evolve.
- You feel a deep sense of connection and understanding with your twin flame, as if you are looking in a mirror and seeing a reflection of yourself.
- Your twin flame’s energy feels familiar and comforting, as if you have known each other for lifetimes.
My Experience with Twin Flame Mirroring
I was never sure what twin flame mirroring meant, and I don’t believe I had ever experienced it in the past, until about 3 years ago. A person came into my life after a horrific ending of a 12 year long-term relationship. From the get-go, this person and I had an extremely strong emotional, spiritual and physical connection which for both of us at the time, was unexplainable.
He had in the last 2 months had also ended a toxic relationship, and was rather open about the situation, as was I about my relationship history.
Neither of us were sure of these feelings, we just knew they existed. Have you ever met someone in your life, very briefly and felt a feeling of ‘home’? Like you had known each-other in a previous life-time with a feeling that you were meant to meet?… Well, I guess that part felt familiar.
We both knew we were there to help each-other in some way, we just were not sure how at this stage. The first night we met, he asked me if I had tried eye-gazing before. I didn’t even know what that meant, but I was open to it. We sat on his bed, both with our legs crossed, held hands and stared deeply into each-others eyes. I had seen this before on some reality TV and had seen that some people can’t help but crack a smile, and laugh.
Our experience was not like this. We connected eyes and stared. I saw his eyes welling up with tears, and my initial reaction was mirrored. Tears rolled down my cheeks and we both continued to gaze into eachothers eyes. He said to me ‘your eyes are a beautiful greeny hazel colour’. I replied ‘your eyes are a beautiful hazel’. It was a beautiful night, after a beautiful day and a special moment which made me feel so much closer to him, only in such early days of knowing each other.
As our journey went on, and we got to know each other more, we began to realise that we mirrored each other, in our strengths, weaknesses, fears, doubts, patterns, health, food, general life passions, growth & development and especially in the way that we showed our feminine and masculine energies.
Strangely, he was the runner and I was the chaser. I put this down to the fact that my soul recognised that he was twin flame, long before he realised this (and I still don’t know to this day if he does realise this). I know that one day he will, but for now we remain in separation.
Naturally, I go for everything I want in life and it is how I have always reached what I want, as well as manifestation. This however, I have realised is a pattern and it is me, acting in my masculine energy. There are many reasons for me being this way but it is something (again, he mirrored to me) that I have been working on. Working on being in my feminine energy which is a receiving energy. When I stopped chasing, he began chasing me and I was able to receive his energy. As soon as there were signs of me chasing again, he ran.
We mirrored each other when it came to our spiritual growth and personal development. An example of this is that he is an incredibly confident and aspiring public speaker and it is within his profession. I however, would love to be an aspiringly confident speaker, but it is just not my natural ability outside of a social setting. He sees that ability in me, however I feel it is a weakness and that I need more practise in this space.
We are both incredible writers and speakers, who have a common ground for wanting to help people. His experience in doing this is very different to mine, but we both mirror this back to eachother.
I am a very calm, confident & light personality. He is a very calm, confident and darker personality. We both are curious of many of the same topics, and seem to be on the same wavelength and energy frequency when we communicate, however I am a gifted writer, and write well in text. Him on the other hand, would rather send audio messages as his strength is speaking.
We have both been taking a very similar spiritual path in the past few years which is extremely obvious to the both of us, and people who know us, though I don’t think we admit it as much to each-other. We have both been working on ourselves and have been going through significant career changes and supporting each-other through many of life’s challenges sadly, including the passing of loved ones. So much has happened in the past 3 years that I know he came into my life for a reason.
He continues to show me all of my fears, insecurities, doubts and limiting beliefs and areas that I need to work on myself. I continue to mirror this back to him too, unsconciously and sometimes consciously.
I hope this helps answer some of those questions around Twin Flame Mirroring and examples of what this means.
Yours truly,
The Petite Poet xx
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